It’s been more than a good long month or so since I’ve posted here (and for good reason, I’d like to think). “What has Alexia been up to”, you may be asking. Well, here’s the Cliff Notes version:
– My boyfriend & I became domestic partners, and we moved in together.
– I made another triumphant visit to my hometown, where I caught up with old friends.
– I landed a new job in the city (San Francisco, for those unclear) as a lead iOS engineer.
As part of that first bullet point, my partner put me on his Kaiser Permanent insurance. Since the time had come to give up my former insurance carrier, the time had come to pick a new primary care physician – one experienced in the care of transgender people like myself.
Kaiser’s suite of transgender services in Northern California, as it turns out, is pretty exemplary. They have a medical center based in Oakland that offers a suite of services to the trans community, and the doctor spearheading the effort to bolster those services is based in Santa Clara…just a few miles from my home. So, I made my appointment and paid my new doctor a visit.
I arrived at the Kaiser hospital & medical center in Santa Clara with just enough time to collect my thoughts over the up-to-that-moment crummy day I was having. After a bit, the nurse called me in to weigh up (I have got some weight to lose, but more on that in another post), take my blood pressure and wait for the doctor.
After a few anxious minutes, Dr. Marcos Siqueiros walks through the door and warmly introduces himself. We have a in-depth conversation about my medical history, and eventually we delve into details about my transition. How I’ve been taking hormones, how long, how I feel, etc.
This part of the conversation is an eyeopener for me. I told him that my previous doctor had recommended patches over pills to take my estrogen, citing that it was the easiest on the liver. He tells me that, for the most part, the differences in how hard your liver works in processing estrogen in either form is negligible, and pills are actually a more consistent way to keep your estrogen levels steady. Even more, he told me that other patients of his had made the switch and were amazed by the near-sudden changes they experienced. On hearing that, the first thought in my head was “I need to get him my last lab reports stat!”
Other eye-opening details about our conversation included:
– disclosing that Kaiser insurance offers facial feminization services
– saying they were in the initial planning phases of covering speech therapy under some insurance plans
– strongly recommending that transwomen be on low-carb diets
All of this was music to my ears. So, I told him that I already had a letter from my therapist recommending me for gender reassignment surgery. As long as I have that in hand, he can get me a referral to the clinic in Oakland for an initial consultation. In addition, he ordered a set of labs done so he could get a baseline reading on where I am right now.
My partner and I left hand in hand, with a smile on my face. I walked out of that building with the sense that I was beginning to take another big step in my journey.